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DreamCatcher | Hi everyone, it's been awhile. Long story short- I met this guy awhile ago in a work situation. The sparks flew, timing not right. We connected, and then a full year went by until we reconnected. Same thing. Sparks, great conversation, attraction, everything. I was pretty confident this was a mutual thing. Again though, the timing is not necessarily right, but I can;t get him out of my head!I saw him again a few days ago and for the first time we really opened up to each other, but it was way more than I expected him to tell me! He told me all about his painful love past, but then he also told me he is basically in love with someone else that it ended with for a fairly big reason. I mean, the guy told me some HEAVY stuff, and in a professional environment. We hardly know each other up until this point. I also feel I am WAY more in tune and spiritually evolved than he is, although he is a little bit this way... I too , opened up to him about my painful past, and it was weird! I don't what to think??? I definitely can tell he's physically attracted to me...I know he likes me, but is this just a friendship?? The weird thing is, he made references to me coming back around, but he did not exactly ask me to either, so I don't want to appear too eager , especially knowing he's hung up on someone else. And can someone please tell me how I can post progressions to see if /when this will go anywhere? Here's the synastry, this is our EXACT times...I'm on the outside, he's on the inside. I'd really just love to know how HE is feeling (according to synastry) because I know how I feel!
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DreamCatcher | I'm actually very disturbed by this , I am feeling this moon/pluto...I'm the pluto...wondering if this is totally unrequited? I feel SO exposed! GAH |
NYCdodger | You may need more input but i noticed the... Moon-Mars-NN-ASC conjunction Moon in the 7th house Conjunct Pluto MC/IC-ASC/DSC Interaction.. |
DreamCatcher | quote: Originally posted by NYCdodger: You may need more input but i noticed the...Moon-Mars-NN-ASC conjunction Moon in the 7th house Conjunct Pluto MC/IC-ASC/DSC Interaction..
Hmm.care to elaborate? So what does that mean? |
NYCdodger | Your moon touches personal areas in his chart. Both of his ASC and NN are activated by it plus Mars which ignites passion. Theres a close bond with this in general. Angles that touch other angles make the interaction personal and spiritual. You should look up more of the meanings of the MC/IC and the ASC/DSC and how they interact with one another in synastry. Your Moon in his 7th house helps him feel familiarity with you. Plus thats another cardinal house (the house of the DSC). Pluto adds a touch of obsession with this |
DreamCatcher | Thanks NYC! I will look that up now...does this appear like it's all me feeling this?? Or does he feel a little loopy as well ? (I know he's probably not as open to it) |
NYCdodger | It seems both ways |
DreamCatcher | Are you male or female? I ask because if you are male, I'd love to ask..I have a hard time believing that he feels this since he basically just told me he was on love with someone else and trying to get over it....hmm.m..Unless I'm the karmic tie that helps him get over her?? |
NYCdodger | Im a male. It could be he likes you but doesn't know how to express it because of his situation. From reading your post i would say he doesn't know what to do. Don't be afraid to let him know what you feel |
DreamCatcher | Thanks NYC....
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DreamCatcher | I can't believe how crazy this is making me feel, especially not knowing his feelings |
Orange | It looks like you are already under the Pluto spell. I don't envy you... |
DreamCatcher | quote: Originally posted by Orange: It looks like you are already under the Pluto spell. I don't envy you...
LOL ORANGE I had a feeling someone would say that..should I just stay away?? |
Orange | lol...I don't think you could, even if you wanted to! |
margym0o | Actually, her Saturn and Pluto fall in his 7th. His Moon falls in her 5th. His Sun and Venus fall in her 8th. His Mercury falls in her 9th (secondary DSC house) plus his Venus is trine her DSC ruler (Jupiter). He is her "type" in a lot of ways. The intensity is stemming from not only his Moon conjunct her Pluto, but her Venus squaring his Pluto as well. It's hard to say who is the more obsessed one in Pluto contacts. I would have said the planet person but people swear the Pluto person can get obsessed as well. |
DreamCatcher | quote: Originally posted by margym0o: Actually, her Saturn and Pluto fall in his 7th. His Moon falls in her 5th. His Sun and Venus fall in her 8th. His Mercury falls in her 9th (secondary DSC house) plus his Venus is trine her DSC ruler (Jupiter). He is her "type" in a lot of ways. The intensity is stemming from not only his Moon conjunct her Pluto, but her Venus squaring his Pluto as well. It's hard to say who is the more obsessed one in Pluto contacts. I would have said the planet person but people swear the Pluto person can get obsessed as well.
LOL Marg- Now Pluto the obsessor needs to ask: from this synastry, am I his "Type" as well? Or look like I'm feeling this more? |
DreamCatcher | quote: Originally posted by Orange: lol...I don't think you could even if you wanted to!
But...could he leave it alone? That's the question...Darn pluto... I also don't want to let on how strong I feel , it's WAY too premature. (Only you all can see my obsessiveness ) LOL I'd really just love to know how HE is feeling (according to synastry) because I know how I feel! |
Orange | If he was emotionally available , you said he was in love with someone else, the synastry shows that there will be a mutual strong attraction, sexual and emotional. With your Moon on his Mars-ASC-Node, you definitely affect him, in a very direct shortcut kind of way. Your both Plutos are affected by the other's Moon and Venus, so it will be equally obsessive for both. He just needs to "see" you and feel you first. |
DreamCatcher | quote: Originally posted by Orange: If he was emotionally available , you said he was in love with someone else, the synastry shows that there will be a mutual strong attraction, sexual and emotional. With your Moon on his Mars-ASC-Node, you definitely affect him, in a very direct shortcut kind of way. Your both Plutos are affected by the other's Moon and Venus, so it will be equally obsessive for both. He just needs to "see" you and feel you first.
Orange- see that's what is bugging me. When I saw him Monday, I felt like he really did "see" me. And I've definitely felt the physical attraction before. But the only way I see him is if I make it a point to show up for "work". So in torn between showing up again, or leaving it alone ..... Any input ? |